Tuesday, June 23, 2009
just decided to do this heh ^^
From now on, you can't tell lies, are you ready?- lets go.
Think back six months ago, were you single?
- yea 6 years ago also single.
What do you carry with you at all times?
- the clothes on my back.
When you say you don't care, do you mean it?
- depends.
How are you feeling?
- very awake unfortunately at 4am.
Is something wrong right now?
- Yes, my life is very boring.
Are you mad at someone?
- no lah why should I be.
What's on your mind?
- My bro who's away at tekong.
Are you jealous of someone right now?
- yup in fact a few people.
Do you have a piggy bank that's actually shaped like a pig?
- No but I have a piggy bank that's shaped like a boy.
Do you want to start over with anyone?
- Friendship yes relationship no.
Do you know if anyone likes you?
- secretly hoping there is heehee.
Are you good at hiding your feelings?
- I've learnt to suppress my feelings though, show them and friends become strangers all of a sudden.
What are you supposed to be doing right now?
- sleep
True love or 1 billion bucks?
- 1 billion bucks...no luck with true love!
Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?
- big eyes.
Anything you would change about your life right now?
- my age??
You have to get a tattoo, where and what do you get?
- on my biceps, prob a chinese word.
Could you cry right now?
- yes, watching tvb dramas make me cry.
Do you ever think about stuff and start crying?
- seldom cry but will be emo.
How often do you hold back from saying what you are thinking?
- Getting frequent.
Are you okay with the life you live?
- not too bad.
Last person you told a secret to?
- no secrets to tell.
Do you like hugs?
- OF COURSE!!
Do you believe true love can conquer anything?
- definitely!!
When was the last time you cried?
- eh...
How much money did you spend today?
- $0 (rot at home).
What are you sitting on right now?
- A chair.
Who's the last person you IM'd?
- dun do IM.
What's something you really want right now, be honest.
- a black honda civic with golden rims.
How do you feel about your hair right now?
- needs a cut.
What did you do yesterday?
- eat sleep shit repeat.
Would you forgive a friend for telling your biggest secret?
- no secrets lah so not scared.
Is there someone that makes you happy every time you speak with them?
- Yea, but always neber see h**!
When's the last time you said you were fine and you really weren't?
- recently.
Is someone on your mind right now?
- yea..someone far away.
Who's birthday is coming up?
- erm..somebody bah.
Were you happy when you woke up?
- Today, yes. Till I saw the letter on the table.
What is one emotion you are feeling right now?
- hungry.
What's the last thing you ate?
- milo cereal.
Are you easy to get along with?
- Yes.
Ever cheated on someone?
- Never had someone to cheat on.
Who is the last person to send you a text?
- Seivon.
What are you currently listening to?
- sounds from my tv.
Most Singaporean guys want absolutely nothing to do with SAF
quickly finish their ns and get the hell out
yet now that I'm into my reservist years
I'm hoping to sign on
crazy la
just crazy
Saturday, May 23, 2009
to jio or wait to be jio-ed?
it's on lonely Saturday nights like this that I wonderwhy some people can be out chilling with friends every other day
while some can only stay home staring at the computer screen
sad to say, quite surprisingly, I belong to the latter group
you know sometimes taking the initiative to ask people out can be so tiring
getting all the sorry I can't make it messages can be so disappointing
not knowing who to ask out can be a big headache
another issue is transport
the list goes on
maybe I'm the type that people assume will jio others out
instead of the type who waits to be jio-ed out
so end up most of my friends do not ask me out
hai this just sucks
nuff said...
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
nice!!
Cute uniformed korean dancing to song "NOBODY"
Uploaded by kickapo - Sitcom, sketch, and standup comedy videos.
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Dun give up!!!
in spite of the looks he got and the physical disability that could not be changed
he did not feel down
instead he used himself as an example to spur others into action
we are able bodied yet we tend to give up all too easily
if you fail 100 times
you try again 100 times
you are not going to lay there and not get up
you will get back on your feet and try again
see how he propped himself up at the end
shows that if you are determined enough you can achieve things people thought you could not achieve
it was a simple yet awe inspiring motion
despite the tremendous odds against you
it's never the end till you give up on yourself
pure optimism
I was tearing and tearing at the end
awesome!!!
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT!!!!!!!and unfit......
Saturday, April 11, 2009
塞翁失马 焉知非福
成语故事:塞翁失马战国时期，靠近北部边城，住着一个老人，名叫塞翁。塞翁养了许多马，一天，他的马群中忽然有一匹走失了。邻居们听说这件事，跑来安慰，劝他不必太着急，年龄大了，多注意身体。塞翁见有人劝慰，笑了笑说：“丢了一匹马损失不大，没准会带来什么福气呢。”
邻居听了塞翁的话，心里觉得很好笑。马丢了，明明是件坏事，他却认为也许是好事，显然是自我安慰而已。过了几天，丢失的马不仅自动返回家，还带回一匹匈奴的骏马。
邻居听说了，对塞翁的预见非常佩服，向塞翁道贺说：“还是您有远见，马不仅没有丢，还带回一匹好马，真是福气呀。”
塞翁听了邻人的祝贺，反而一点高兴的样子都没有，忧虑地说：“白白得了一匹好马，不一定是什么福气，也许惹出什么麻烦来。”
邻居们以为他故作姿态纯属老年人的狡猾。心里明明高兴，有意不说出来。
塞翁有个独生子，非常喜欢骑马。他发现带回来的那匹马顾盼生姿，身长蹄大，嘶鸣嘹亮，膘悍神骏，一看就知道是匹好马。他每天都骑马出游，心中洋洋得意。
一天，他高兴得有些过火，打马飞奔，一个趔趄，从马背上跌下来，摔断了腿。邻居听说，纷纷来慰问。
塞翁说：“没什么，腿摔断了却保住性命，或许是福气呢。”邻居们觉得他又在胡言乱语。他们想不出，摔断腿会带来什么福气。
不久，匈奴兵大举入侵，青年人被应征入伍，塞翁的儿子因为摔断了腿，不能去当兵。入伍的青年都战死了，唯有塞翁的儿子保全了性命。
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
SUCKS LAH
I'm getting that dreadful feeling YET AGAINapplying for university in Sillypore is a real pain
more students than places available = survival of the fittest
it's a waiting game
hai...
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
不孝子
Top: Leong Mew Peng, 80, a Singaporean at Spring Valley Homecare in Johor Baru.]
JB nursing homes draw some S'poreans
By Melissa Sim
WHEN civil servant Gordon Yong, 39, needed to find a nursing home for his mother following her stroke, he found the ones in Singapore too expensive.
They were charging between $1,200 and $1,800 a month - far more than he could afford on his salary of under $4,000, which also supports his three-child family. His working wife also has to look after her parents.
He did the next best thing and got his mother a place in a home in Johor Baru (JB) for $600 a month. This is how Madam Leong Mew Peng, 80, came to live in Spring Valley Homecare, less than half an hour's drive from the Causeway.
Fellow Singaporean Alison Low, 58, checked herself into Spring Valley over two years ago - also for cost reasons.
The three-year-old home has 11 Singaporeans, making up one in five residents there. Of the 10 other homes The Straits Times inquired at in JB, eight said they had between one and 10 Singaporeans.
Checks with their kin showed cost savings to be the main draw of these homes.
A plug for these homes came in Parliament on Monday from Health Minister Khaw Boon Wan, who said Singaporeans could save money by using JB nursing homes. For what it costs to board someone in a private nursing home here, 'you can stretch it easily to pay for at least 21/2 months of nursing home care in Johor Baru', he said. The facilities there typically charge between $450 and $1,000 a month, compared to those here which ask for between $1,000 and $4,000.
Mr Khaw said another perk is that JB is 'near enough for relatives to visit'.
But 57-year-old supervisor Mohamed Waris, whose father is at Spring Valley, said he has problems finding a cab to go there. Nonetheless, he makes the journey every two to three weeks.
Those who check out JB homes are also finding some with facilities that are comparable to those here.
Spring Valley, for example, follows Singapore regulations and provides one toilet for every four beds. Its high ceilings and large windows make its rooms airy.
China Healthcare, previously known as Econ Healthcare, will open a 200-bed home in JB within two years, following its 100-bed facility in Kuala Lumpur. Its chairman, Mr Ong Chu Poh, said a home in JB would appeal to Singaporeans due to their familiarity with the town, its proximity to Singapore and the lower fees.
Mr Yong would agree that JB is still the best choice for him now for those reasons. 'I'm just unable to afford the rates here. But I do wish I was able to bring my mother back.'
http://www.asiaone.com/Health/News/S...16-122330.html
It makes me very sad and angry reading this
yea I understand that there is a budget constraint
Singapore cost of living is high
but nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING can justify dumping your parents in a JB home
YOUR OWN MOTHER LEH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!!
I mean what happen to all the 好公民 lessons in primary school
where have all the moral values gone to?
how can you do such a thing?
how can you treat a person who gave birth to you like that!!
饮水思源 HALLOW!?
look at the lady in the picture
does she even look happy
imagine everyday lying on the bed gazing at the ceiling
far away from friends and family
no one to talk to
no grandchildren to play with
讲得不好听好像在等死
it's a sad sight
shame on this Gordon Yong
whether fictional or not
given we have a "154th media"
don't tell me spend a few hundred dollars on a maid also can't afford
get $4000 salary somemore
must chuck his mum to JB to 'cut cost'
even going to senior citizens day care in Singapore is cheaper and a better alternative
what no time to look after her MY ASS
got time to earn $ no time to look after your own mum rite
or issit your wife can't get along with your mum
choose wife over mum right
why don't send your wife's parents to JB as well leh?
ingrateful bastard
who look after you when you were a baby
feed you bathe you coax you to sleep
raise you up and provide for your needs
all the $ and effort
and this is how you treat her
raining that time you better be careful
walk outside 雷公劈
to think that the govt
the health minister
suggests JB as a good place to send your aged parents to
no doubt it's cheaper
everything aside
that is just plain wrong morally
wait till the health minister's children send him to a JB home
and conveniently 'forget' to visit him
see how he feel
out of sight out of mind mah
everytime I see the picture I feel very sad leh
why they even publish this
govt have agreement with malaysian govt issit
boost the malaysian economy issit
I imagine when I am old and not economically useful in Singapore
does this imply I will be
- sent to old folks home
- sent to nursing home far from children's place
- sent overseas
I dun believe visits to JB is really so convenient. Over time there will be a lot of excuses and then it becomes one visit per year machiam area inspection liao
hope all who read this
please don't do this to your parents
whatever your financial situation
there can be other solution definitely
your parents deserve more love and respect
they are humans with feelings too
don't do unto others what you don't want others to do onto you
Monday, March 23, 2009
The Leaking Bucket
There was a gardener who had a leaking bucket.
Every day without fail, he would use it to ferry water from the nearby well to water the garden.
However, by the time he reached the garden, half of the water in the bucket would have leaked out
The bucket felt very ashamed of itself and felt that the leak was a big flaw, but the gardener never once complained and used the bucket every day rain or shine.
One day, the bucket could not take it any longer.
It asked the gardener why he continued using the bucket even though he knew about the leak.
It was totally not efficient and he could have gotten a brand new bucket which did not leak at all.
The gardener then said to the bucket, "You notice the bunch of flowers I gather for the master everyday? They are your handiwork. Knowing that you leaked, I planted many seeds along the path I would take from the well to the garden. Without the water leaking from you, I would not be able to grow such beautiful flowers. You deserve the credit."
After hearing this, the bucket finally realised why the gardener had used the bucket all along. His flaw had been a blessing in disguise after all.
Sometimes, we tend to focus on our weak points and feel lousy about ourselves. Who knows, our weak points may actually turn out to be our strong points after all. =)
Saturday, March 21, 2009
time trickles by
it's really ironicthere I was complaining of how sucky N** was
no friends
keep studying
no time to relax
can't do well
in a matter of months
all that has changed
now that I have so much time on my hands
I suddenly wish that I can study
be busy
get stressed by exams
and not play the waiting game all over again
人有时真的是很犯贱
suffer that time kpkb
never suffer liao say sian
I really need something to spice up my life
a new gadget
a hobby
a sport
a relationship perhaps?
it's times like this that I really think a lot
what am I doing with my life
where I'm heading
what I wanna achieve
I"M NOT EMO!!!
I'm perfectly fine
not particularly upset over anything
just feeling 空虚
how many times must I 'hope for the best'
'wish they give me a chance'
appeal like a madman'
waiting
and waiting
and waiting
for that one door to open
我很累了
Friday, March 20, 2009
學警狙擊
I LOVE THIS SHOW!!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
男追女，隔座山，女追男，隔層紗
女孩主動出擊“獵取”愛情，有時確實像一層紙一樣，一捅即破。正如俗話說的那樣：“男追女，隔座山，女追男，隔層紗”。有些女性 正是因為懂得在婚戀中採取主動態度，令男性眼中的她出眾無比，最終贏得美滿愛情歸。台灣名嘴陶晶瑩在談及自己的戀愛史時，就直截了當地說：“像我們這樣聰 明的女人，如果不主動點，基本上就沒什麼機會啦！”所以，一旦自己欣賞的人出現在身邊時，不要猶豫，巧妙地主動爭取。
在電視劇《我們遙遠的青春》里，戴妍是個潑辣美麗的女孩，一個偶然的機會，她認識了一個叫葛俊的民樂系學生，並在學校的匯演中對他產生了好感。她就開始了自己的追求愛情之旅。
她的主動幾乎逼得對方沒有拒絕的余地──她不但經常去看葛俊的演出，而且在他們演出結束後，一直跟在樂隊的後面，幾乎是“窮追不捨”。
人人都看得出她對葛俊的好感，一個女孩滿校園地追著一個男孩攆，這是一種怎樣的尷尬？可她不在乎，認定了自己的愛就要去追求，不管別人怎麼看、怎麼嘲笑。
為了追求葛俊，並不懂音樂的她硬要加入葛俊的樂隊。當葛俊拒絕了她後，她依然不洩氣，有一天晚上，把葛俊堵住，說：“聽著，我給你兩個選擇，一是讓我加入你們的樂隊，二是我要做你的女朋友，我給你兩天的時間選擇。”
她的主動讓葛俊沒有回旋的余地。讓一個不懂音樂的女孩加入樂隊，對樂隊的負面影響可想而知，無奈之下，葛俊選擇了做戴妍的男友。
戴妍就是這麼主動地把愛情抓在了手里，最後她又以真性情贏得了葛俊的真愛。當然，正確的方式才能達到目的，否則結果常常會適得其反。
女孩在主動出擊的時候，以下這些招式最好不要用：
身體誘惑：也許是你身體的誘惑更讓他無法抗拒，然而如果他無法抗拒的只是你暴露過多的身體，占了便宜就跑，你就吃大虧了。
自我吹噓或炫耀：從公司傑出青年到天才兒童，你以為把自己描繪成希拉莉，就能迫使他主動追求你。殊不知，你的“優秀”會讓他產生一種無形的壓力，自我吹捧也會讓人覺得你淺薄。
自己低到塵埃里：不能這樣去對男人說：“你現在可能不愛我，但我願意等。”“我知道自己配不上你，然而我是世界上最愛你的人。”這樣的愛情，就算得到了，以後他變心也會振振有辭：“我本來都不愛你，是你自己當初要對我死纏爛打。”
扮作免費全職鐘點工：對他來說，無微不至的照顧能用白不用，用了也白用。
送貴重禮物：因重禮而愛上你的男人你養不起；而他不是這樣的男人，你又何必破費送重禮？
無論怎樣，女孩追求異性，應該有自己的底線。這又要注意下面的三點：
1. 時間不能太長。
如果在這期間，他不能如你想像中的那樣接受你，或不能像你對待他那般地對你好，不公開承認你，不說愛你，就表明他已經變相地拒絕了你，只是在享受著你的關心。這時，你應該學會放棄，實在舍不得放棄，依然愛他至深，那麼就要想方設法變換方式來讓他主動愛上你了。
2. 懂得適可而止。
多次約他參加活動，如果他老是拒絕，就表明他對你沒有那種意思，那麼，還是適可而止吧。想表露心跡，可以借些特殊的道具或日子，以開玩笑的口氣說“我好喜歡你”，他若有心，會當真，倘若無心，則純粹當你是開玩笑，自然也不會失了面子。
3. 場合要適合。
一般情況下，最好是選擇人多的場合，比如參加聚會、結伴旅遊什麼的，這樣可以見機行事地暗示你的愛慕之情。如果被拒絕，也沒什麼，還有那麼多人陪著，也不會讓自己失態。
被爱是一种福气
Monday, March 02, 2009
tio beh pio
merlion struck by lightning
HEADSHOT SIA!!
so strange that so many tall buildings nearby don't wanna hit
must aim merlion
haha he dunno how to 'take cover'
Monday, February 23, 2009
我要做个不倒翁bounce back when you're down =)
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
感恩的心
积极地面对未来让我有一种莫名的快乐
珍惜身边的朋友
他们的鼓励让我勇敢向前
亲人的支持和谅解
使我感受到亲情的可贵
我的生命又充实了
Saturday, January 31, 2009
欠扁问答题：
为什么放烟花的时候不会打到星星？
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Obama is officially the 44th president of the United States Of America!!The dream lives on =)