Tuesday, April 01, 2008
忠言逆耳
I'm glad I'm 26 this year
and a guy
why?
cos I have no curfews
can use the car, go drinking, stay out late
my parents give me the freedom to go where I want
the trust to do what I like
the right to make my own decisions
but all these didn't come overnight
I was a teenager once
I was misunderstood too
deemed rebellious and difficult to control by my parents
I had curfews back in sec sch
back home by 7pm
that was tough
gradually
I was given more leeway
something to be grateful for , not to be taken for granted
trust needs to be earned, not demanded
and when you reach a certain age
your parents will let go
that is
if they feel that its safe to let go
I've been reading a few blogs belonging to my poly friends
and this come home late thingy has been popping up quite often
not to sound too kaypo
poking my nose into others' business
take it easy
parents have your interests at heart
the nagging and scoldings are out of care and love
wouldn't it be worse if they didn't give a damn what u did or where u went
earn their trust
show them you can take care of yourself
slowly you will see the change
food for thought =)
so he said @
11:28 PM
